“Whatever place does not welcome you or listen to you,
leave there and shake the dust off your feet…”
It isn’t easy for me to walk away. This propensity to stay connected is partially genetic and partially learned. My parents opened their door to everyone. I recall my mom saying, “I leave the door open. If people choose not to come in, it’s their loss.” Jesus also welcomed everyone who crossed his path. Since I subscribe to Jesus’ way of life, I try to welcome people the way Jesus did.
Still, there are people who really are not good for us. They may not cause physical harm, but they may take a psychological or spiritual or emotional toll on us. I find that if my gut is having a strong reaction to someone, I need to listen. This does not necessarily mean that I need never to speak to this person again. However, it may mean that I should limit our contact as best I can.
This may seem like an odd topic for a daily reflection, especially during such a happy time in my own life. I have included it because sometimes good people think that part of “being good” is allowing ourselves to be hurt unnecessarily. Our loving God could not disagree more.
Dear God, as you walk with me, keep me safe and wise. Help me to recognize potential harm and guide me away from its source.
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